The Why Question, Part 1: The Doctor Behind My Why

My why began in illness and healing

Before I could explain it, a sickly childhood taught me this about good doctors: They make you feel better before you actually start getting better. Years later, Simon Sinek's "Start With Why" gave the lesson a name. This post walks through Simon Sinek's Golden Circle — Why, How, What — and pairs it with Daniel Pink's research on purpose, autonomy and mastery as drivers of motivation. It includes a short exercise to find your own Why, a candid admission that this blog’s Why only became clear to the author a year into writing it, and a bedside technique borrowed from addiction medicine: asking a patient why they want to change instead of telling them why they should.

The Why You Never Said Aloud

Margin mission

As a debate rages over whether business schools should close, physicians already know where purpose comes from. Medicine instills the Why. What nobody teaches is how to say it. Through the story of a residency faculty member who pushed trainees to see patients faster with no reason beyond “that’s real life,” this post shows what fills that silence, and offers one fix: the “Because” Test.

The Standardization Tax, Part 4: Who Pays It and How

Someone will pay The Standardization Tax

A terminal cancer patient, offered a copay-free MRI, declines it. Instead, she chooses to keep her MRI at the hospital where all her doctors are. That decision anchors The Standardization Tax series' final argument: when a load-bearing wall comes down, someone pays for it. Physicians absorb unpaid time for conversations and documentation that the schedule doesn't allow. Patients absorb the cost of fragmented knowledge or flattened preferences. The post closes with practical advice on scope rather than sacrifice, and a direct, honest answer to the pre-med student who opened the series.

The Standardization Tax, Part 3: The Two Load-bearing Walls

Standardization and handoffs lead to knowledge lost

Post 2 in the series was about doubting your own judgment and attention enough to follow a checklist. This post is about doubting it enough to ask the patient what they want, and to trust knowledge you didn't personally build. It covers two kinds of load-bearing variation: the wall built by patient choice (Wennberg's preference-sensitive care and the shared decision-making it requires) and the wall built by a physician's earned knowledge of a patient over time, i.e., continuity of care. Standardizing either wall away doesn't reduce waste. It reduces choice or erases knowledge whose value nobody understood until it was gone.